Thursday, April 9, 2009
The birds and the bees.
Some of our neighbors just adopted their third child from Russia. They were throwing a "meet Lex" party, so I took the girls. As we were walking home, Camille said when she grows up she isn't having kids -- she is adopting. So I told her that was a cool choice and their are lots of kids who need good homes... just ask Madonna. Then she dropped the bomb... she said, "I'm not having kids because I think I know what you have to do to make them." Of course I inquired, but she thought she might get in trouble for saying "the" word. So I said, "Sex, are you asking about sex?" And yes, that is indeed what she wanted to know about *at eight years old.* She thought people get in trouble for having sex. So we talked about how God created sex for procreation and love in the confines of marriage. But she still has a ton of questions. I'm doing my best to answer... but yikes, this is uncomfortable territory!
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There are lots of resources online with ideas about how to broach this subject. Google some and read up a bit, and find some ideas that you like. :)
ReplyDeleteHeh... I like the idea of her staying chaste and not even knowing what sex is until she is like 30. I know, only in my dreams! The thought of boys reeking of teen spirit is not a happy thought. I will read up and keep an open dialogue, but it still has the *shudder* effect. Time for me to get over that!
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